Addicted to addictions

Jeffmac
I think that I may have a compulsive personality. I’m like a pitbull on hobbies, issues, and interests. Once I get my teeth sunk it, I don’t let go very easily. I’ve learned over the years that not everyone is as interested or enamored with the same things I am, and they tend to get this glossy-eyed look as I froth at the mouth about something I’m interested in.

I mean, why in the world people wouldn’t people be hot-to-trot about fantasy football, reading, basketball, blogging, Xbox, movies, coffee, and Macs? Everyone of those has been proven scientifically to prolong your life, bring peace, and make you rich. Really. Just check out each of the previous links. and then read Mark’s excellent column about how reliable science is. (Of course, there’s also Steven Johnson’s new book, Everything Bad is Good for You.)

To be truthful, I can see how anyone of those things (and yours are most likely different) can become more than just hobbies. For some folks, they can become obsessions. For others, it might even approach the "addiction" level. Addictions ain’t good. You can quote me on that. It’s quite profound.

Here’s the rub: for those seeking to have a biblically-shaped and informed worldview, you will find quickly that Scripture doesn’t deal with addictions the same way our culture does. In Scripture, we are simply told, for example, not to get drunk. But what about someone who is an alcoholic? Our culture prescribes a 12-step program replete with reliance on a "higher power." Scripture has a simple imperative: don’t do it. Let’s continue using the alcohol analogy:

  • The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions andenvy; drunkenness,
    orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before,that those who live
    like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. (Galatians 5.19-22)
  • Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. (Ephesians 5.18)
  • For you have spent enoughtime in the past doing what pagans choose to do?living in debauchery,lust, drunkenness, orgies, carousing and detestable idolatry. (1 Peter 4.3)

As you peruse the scriptures above (and dozens of others), you’ll
readily notice that what is being forbidden as sinful here are many of
today’s modern "addictions." Could it be that we have replaced sin with
more palatable terminology for our egos and self-esteem? For a
modern/post-modern culture, the idea of not doing something because it
is offensive to a holy God is not acceptable. Rather, then we must
define our poor behavior and negative attitudes on things that are not
"healthy," or things that are hurtful to others.

For when we call something an addiction, or a disorder, or the like,
we in some ways absolve ourselves of spiritual responsibility. The
fault becomes chemical, genetic, or substance-related rather than being
a matter of a weak will.

The Christian should seek to have a contemporary perspective
informed and guided by scriptural truth rather than cultural trends.
The problem is a sin problem. God’s demand for our holiness is not
alleviated by any modern method of treatment. Consider the following:

  • Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set onwhat that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. (Romans 8.5)
  • Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God. (Romans 8.8)
  • Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. (1 Peter 2.11)
  • So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.
  • Forthe sinful nature desires
    what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the
    sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not
    do what you want. (Galatians 5.16-17)
  • Let us behave decently, asin
    the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality
    and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. (Romans 13.13-14)

Over and over in scripture, the reality presented is not that we are
addicted to external things, whether substances, behaviors, or systems;
rather, the reality is that we are inherently sinful, and we must
choose to exercise our minds, or our wills – with the empowering of God
within us through His Spirit – to purposefully choose thongs things
that please God. When left by ourselves, we will allow our sinful
nature to lead us into behavior patterns that are ungodly and horrific
to a holy God.

So, the problem is not our addiction but our sin. And if sin is the
issue, then we are given a solution through the enabling of God. It is
not the elevation of our esteem ("I’m OK, but I have a problem…"),
but it’s forgiveness.

If you, O LORD kept a record of sins, O LORD, who could stand?
But with You there is forgiveness; therefore You are feared. (Psalm 130.3-4)

This is massive, life-upending and restoring news. It is peace to
the roaring, chaotic life. It is comfort to the desperate and hopeless
who have "tried everything." It’s good news. It’s the gospel. You are
forgiven. You are not… an alcoholic… a pervert… a drughead… a
sex offender. You are forgiven.

For all those whose identities have long been lost in their addictions, the identity gift described in the Word of God leads you back to the person you truly are, the one you were created to be.

  • How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! (1 John 3.1)
  • So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All
    this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave
    us the ministry of reconciliation. (2 Corinthians 5.16-18)

All this is free. Given to us by God. It’s not something we have
ever deserved, worked for, or earned. John 3.16 begins, "For God so
loved the world that He gave…" Tremendous truth. Forever forgiven.

The addiction is not the problem. The sin is. We do have a choice.
God has the power and the desire. It doesn’t mean that there won’t be a
daily choices and rigorouos personal discipline to experience the
freedom that God provides for us. It does mean that He can if we will.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us
our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1.9)

It’s no one else’s fault. It’s our sin against the God of the universe. A Holy Creator. A Loving Savior.

Let’s quit accepting prescriptions for wholeness from our culture and start seeking provisions for holiness from our Creator.

If you are confused about all the scriptural references above and/or
have never considered who God created you to be, I’d like to point you
to some excellent resources and links below:

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Jeff
August 13, 2006 6:59 pm

Hmmm… Calvinism. I might see a post coming up in the future…. as long as you’re not from Warren. Richard, thanks so much for the kind words, encouragement, and links. I enjoy your blog as well. It’s a MAS (mutual admiration society). Ryan, I totally agree with the point about not being able to help folks who don’t want help, and I think Mark is right to urge us to keep on keeping on. The heart of God would compel us to not ever give up on people. I wrote a story for The Student magazine a few years back… Read more »

jill
August 13, 2006 5:44 pm

hmmmm interesting. i would also like to know your view of calvinism…..ALSO, re: addictions – i’m wondering about the factor of the depravity of man. the world gets worse with each generation, biologically, psychologically, socially, and spiritually. i’m wondering if these addictions could be a result of that as well, among other things

K.T.
August 12, 2006 3:33 pm

Hi My name is K.T. and I am an addict.In two very typical ways(nicotine and caffeine)and one very non-typical way.I am a hoarder.Yes,I am OCD,in many many many ways.I know that anytime I can give up my nicotine and caffeine,{not saying it would be easy}but hoarding is different.It is from a depth of anxiety,the hoarding is.Water,in bottles,clothing,paperwork,food (not in that cute little hamster way)but in the non-perishable,”what if we run out” way.When you do experience an addiction-one that is not per se ,self inflicted,it is next to impossible to say “I will just stop.I pray to the Lord every night… Read more »

Carolyn Noble
August 11, 2006 10:15 pm

Jeff, where did you find that picture on the right?! Don’t tell me you’ve been there!

Richard Pool
Richard Pool
August 11, 2006 1:42 am

Hi Jeff It was really great to tun on my laptop this morning and read this post. It made a great start to the day. Thank you. A long time ago I came to the conclusion that I could take one of two approaches to the things I do. I could either excuse them or explain them. For example, it’s possible, even probable, that some of the reactions I have to events around me are because my parent’s separated when I was 12, but that doesn’t excuse those reactions. If I only ever excuse my responses, I will never take… Read more »

Mark W.
August 10, 2006 11:29 pm

In response to Ryan?s comments on addiction, I agree that change will only occur after the addict makes a deliberate choice to fight it ? that is the key ? however, I think it?s dangerous to come at the problem with such a laissez-faire attitude. Given that human beings have free will, we can and do intervene and make differences in people?s lives (if we can?t then the concept of evangelism is a sham). But if this is true, then other people coming to the addict and making an effort to intervene and coax the addict towards the right decision… Read more »

Ryan Morgan
Ryan Morgan
August 10, 2006 10:10 pm

Jeff you really need to write a book some day soon. On the matter of addictions I don’t believe you can help anyone who doesn’t want to be helped. So in essence don’t waste your time. On the other hand if a person truely wants to be helped and understands the committment factor and the price that will inevitably be paid then I say go for it. This same approach is taken in scripture. Look at the story of the rich young ruler. He comes to Jesus and wants to know how to gain everlasting life and what did Jesus… Read more »

Jeff
August 10, 2006 9:52 pm

Thanks, everyone for the input so far. Mark, in particular, wow. When you write such insightful responses, it lends even more credence to someone’s post. I could have written about the blessedness of baloney, and it would be substantiated by a comment like yours above. You’re an amazing writer.

Lou… it’s just a matter of time. We may need an intervention.

Lou Arnold
August 10, 2006 8:02 pm

Is that what my husband is going to look like after I finally let him go into the Apple store? I think I may just wait a little longer on letting him go in one.

K.T.
August 10, 2006 7:58 pm

Very interesting.More to ponder……;)

Mark W.
August 10, 2006 7:11 pm

Jeff, Great post today! You really spent some time thinking this through. As a philosopher, as well as someone with a bone to pick with mechanistic science, I am constantly questioning the place of ?the will? (or lack thereof) in contemporary thought. The current trends of the medical and psychological fields seem to assume that all human actions are simply a result of the biochemical dictates of our nervous system. Alter the chemicals and alter behavior. Historically, one?s ?will? has been played huge role in philosophy as well as religion. Even atheistic philosophers such as Nietzsche and Sartre acknowledged that… Read more »

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